Rhonda Shasteen

Chief Marketing Officer (retired) at Mary Kay Inc.

At Mary Kay for more than 25 years, and worked closely with Mary Kay Ash for 10.

Raised in Dallas, Texas. Married, 2 grown children.

At work, I enjoy helping women develop as leaders; creating solutions to complex problems;  learning new things. At home, I enjoy the cows, horses and garden; fresh country air and time with my husband; learning new things and discovering my authentic self.

With more time, I would: sew (again); exercise (more); run for political office.

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  • Growing up in Mary Kay

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    I often wonder how different my life would have been, and even how different I would have been, had I not "grown up" in Mary Kay.  I was in my very early 20's when I came to work here, and had so much to learn about business, people, life and myself.  Almost daily, I am reminded of the tremendous impact that Mary Kay Ash, our sales force and my colleagues have had on my life and my journey of becoming the leader, wife, mother and friend that I am today.  I know without a doubt that I am a better person, and that my life is richer because of the values that are entrenched in our company culture, and the warm and caring people that I am surrounded by.  Mary Kay Ash encouraged all of us to pass on what we had learned, believing that "all you send into the lives of others comes back into your own."

    One way that I have chosen to "pass it on" is in mentoring young women in business, both inside and outside our company.  I am amazed at what I have learned myself over these past few years as I've sat alongside these dynamic young women as they've shared their joys and challenges, seeking to improve their effectiveness and develop their full potential.  I hope that I and the other female leaders of my generation have paved a path that they can follow that leads them to fulfillment.  They are so bright and driven, and truly seek to make a difference in the world.

    Another way that I've seen our Mary Kay values being passed on is from our sales force and employees to their children.  When I see these children and hear their stories, it warms my heart and gives me tremendous hope for the future of our world.  So many of them have larger than life dreams and are accomplishing great things at a very young age.  One in particular, has caught my attention many times, and I want to share with you something about Alexandra.  Alexandra is the 9 year-old, third grade daughter of one of the female VIce Presidents on my team.  Alexandra has always seemed wise beyond her years, a deep thinker with a caring and compassionate spirit.  This comes as no surprise to me, however, because Alexandra grew up in Mary Kay.  In fact, she was born into Mary Kay.

    Last week, I learned that Alexandra was running for President of the after-school club that she is involved in.  As part of the election process, she had to write and deliver a speech to the entire club to share her leadership platform.  Her speech was so inspiring to me, and once again made me thankful for the Mary Kay lessons that are "caught" and gave me great hope for the future.  I want to share a small part of Alexandra's campaign speech with you.

    "I have a dream that a woman will be elected as President!  I have a dream that one day this country would be ruled by girls!  All girls should get a very great education and experiences.  And right now, all the way in Africa, girls aren't getting great education or experiences.  We need to learn that what we get is great for us, even if we don't like writing, reading, math or science.  It's better than nothing.  So don't whine or cry that you have to do loads of homework, because all you get is more homework.  If I were President we would send educational books to Africa and hope they learn more!  It really does not matter what you look like, what your grades are or how fast you are, because everyone needs to learn and I think that's important.  I hope I am teaching you something right because it's a required mission for me to be helpful, honest, respectful and responsible in many ways.  Thank you!" 

    I have no doubt that Alexandra will achieve great things in her life, and I hope that when she does, that she, too, realizes the benefits of "growing up in Mary Kay."

  • A case for farsightedness

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    As I mentioned in an earlier post, I attended and spoke at a Global Business Summit recently in Dallas, sponsored by the local chapter of the American Marketing Association.  I was the last speaker, which is sometimes good and sometimes bad; this time it was good.  The theme of the conference was focused on doing business in a tough economy, and all day long I listened to folks who were sharing their concerns about the current state of business and sharing stories of challenging times for their companies.  As the day went on, my head became filled with thoughts of how well prepared Mary Kay was, unlike many other companies, for any sort of challenge that came our way.  I wondered, why are we are in such a different place?  What is it that Mary Kay has done differently that has us in such a strong place?  I continued to think about that most of the afternoon, so much so that I was often distracted from the program. 

    When it came my turn to speak, I shared the story of Mary Kay's global growth, and our record sales year in 2008, much to the astonishment of the audience.  At the end, a gentleman in the audience asked me why I thought Mary Kay was getting these kinds of results.  (Thank goodness for the seeds that had been planted earlier in the day, as I was well prepared to tell him exactly what I thought.)  I responded that I'm certain there are a number of reasons, but one of the most significant has to be that we continue to be long-term focused.  And our "farsightedness" began at the very beginning with Mary Kay Ash herself in 1963.

    Mary Kay Ash's decision to take her then life savings of $5,000 and invest in her vision for women's potential was indeed farsighted.  She knew that the lives of these women were not going to change over night, and that it wouldn't be easy.  I can only imagine the short-term sacrfices that she and Richard made in order to see their long-term dream become a reality.  As that reality began to come to fruition, and Mary Kay realized that this thriving organization was not only going to outgrow her ability to personally mentor each woman but would also outlive her, she raised up a new group of leaders to carry on the legacy. Mary Kay and Richard once again exhibited their farsightedness when they made the decision to take the company public in order to raise the capital needed to provide regional distribution centers to better serve our growing sales force around the country.  Knowing that being a publicly-held corporation would not be in the best interest of Mary Kay long-term, they had the vision to risk everything, taking the company back under private family ownership.  And in 2001, deciding to become debt-free brought us to the place of security and sustainability that we have today.  In any of these situations, if the range of sight was near, rather than far, I wonder how different things might look.  I am grateful for the farsightedness of Mary Kay Ash and Richard Rogers, and am thankful that it appears to be contagious, as our current executive team exhibits these same qualities.

    Then I got to thinking more (which can sometimes be dangerous) about how that same farsightedness, that has served us well in business, could be applied in other areas. I thought about all the successful people that I know, and they shared a focus on long-term thinking. I also thought about myself and examples of my own near versus farsightedness. Case in point: In my mid-forties, I was carrying quite a bit of extra weight and had tried numerous times to diet and get it off, with no success.  When my focus shifted to the fact that my dad had his first heart attack at 50, and I was quickly approaching that age myself, I began to look at things from a different perspective.  My nearsightedness (focusing on dieting and losing the weight) changed to farsightedness (my long-term health and quality of life) and I began to see very different results.  Finally I was able to get the scales to move in the direction of that long-term focus.  I can think of numerous other examples that I can cite in my personal life, and in my career, where this is also true.  (I won't share those, though, because then this would be a novel instead of a blog.)

    I was chatting at dinner on Monday evening with Inner Circle Independent National Sales Director Jan Harris, and sharing my thoughts on this short-term versus long-term thinking and the affect it can have on us.  Jan shared something that I wanted to pass on, because she in fact is an example of one of the most farsighted people I've encountered.  When I asked about the length of perspective on her business, her answer was "My lifetime".  Now THAT is farsightedness!

    I wonder how many of these challenges that individuals, families, corporations and even nations are currently facing could have been mitigated if only they had been more farsighted.  All of this has inspired me now to constantly ask myself, "If I do this, am I sacrificing my long-term goals for today?" and "Is what I'm doing today contributing to my lifelong vision?" Of course I know there will be times when I will have to adjust plans because of short-term circumstances, but if the adjustment is moving me away from rather than toward my long-term goals, I'm going to continue to search for a win-win course of action.

    So...when was the last time you had YOUR VISION checked and HOW FAR CAN YOU SEE?

  • We have a winner!

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    The votes are in and we have a winning tagline for the Mary Kay blog.  Congratulations and thanks to each of you who contributed a tagline suggestion, and also to those who took the time to vote.

    The winning tagline is Reflections: The purpose and passion behind Mary Kay products and people

    This tagline was originally submitted by Kim Howe Beams as Reflections: Look in, reach out! Discover the purpose and passion behind Mary Kay products & people.  When we went through the process of narrowing down all the submissions into the 13 finalists, we did some editing in order to make some of them shorter, but still maintain the essence of the thought.

    I'm extremely happy with where we ended up on the tagline, and I think it does a wonderful job of explaining to our blog readers what sort of content they will find here when they visit. I hope you like it. The tagline will actually begin appearing on the blog site sometime next week.

    Kudos to Kim for the winning slogan, and you're going to look FAB carrying that stylish Michael Kors designer handbag.  (Kim, I'll send you a tweet to let you know when to expect the bag.)

    If you're interested in how the voting turned out, click on the link below to see the results.

    Click here to view voting results

    Have a great weekend, and we'll be off and running next week with some thought-provoking content.

  • Happy Earth Day!

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    Today is the day that we celebrate Mother Earth.  I'm thankful that we've decided to set aside a day to honor our planet and to reflect on sustainability in the environment, however, every day should be Earth Day.  After all, it is the only Earth that we have.  Many people will be out doing special things today to help the planet in their local communities, but I wonder how  many of them will go right back to their normal routines tomorrow without having made any long-term changes in their behavior that could make a difference.  Each of us, doing small things, can collectively add up to big changes that will improve our sustainability for generations to come. 

    At Mary Kay, we take our accountability as a good steward of the environment very seriously.  Are we perfect?  No, not yet.  Are we working harder every day to make continuous improvements? Yes, we are. This last year I've witnessed first-hand how, by working together, we've made a tremendous difference.  Thanks to the efforts of our Independent Beauty Consultants and their customers who recycled their old platinum and pink compacts, we planted an ENTIRE FOREST in the Bitterroot National Forest.  That's 200,000 trees!  Thanks to our corporate employees, who willingly (okay maybe they fussed just a little) gave up their space heaters and turned off the lights in their work area when they weren't being used, we saved enough electricity in 2008 to power more than 700 homes for a whole year.  We continue to recycle the water and alcohol that is left over after we manufacture our products; and the alcohol can be used in the production of fuel.  For 20 years our employees have recycled paper, cardboard, aluminum cans and now plastic bottles, saving tons of landfill waste. We're continuing to find ways to reduce the amount of plastics and paper used in our product packaging, and to make all our products more recyclable.

    Today, Van (my husband) and I will be planting one more tree at our small farm.  In the last year, we've also planted 4 other trees, which will provide fruit for us this summer; started composting with the help of our cows and horses, and I compost all the kitchen scraps as well.  It works wonders on the vegetable garden, which we also started last fall.  Because we are at least 10 miles away from most of the city conveniences, we've also made a conscious effort to bundle our trips to town, so my grocery shopping and other errands I frequently do on the way home from the office in the evening in order to save fuel. I'm currently in the market for some rain barrels to catch the rainwater and use it to water the garden and the animals. Nothing really earth-shattering, but I know that these small steps will make a difference in the long run.

    With almost 2 million Indpendent Beauty Consultants and tens of millions of customers around the world, if we were to each do a few small things, imagine the HUGE impact it would have.  I encourage you to do something good for Mother Earth today, stop doing some of the things you've been doing, and create new lifelong habits that will contribute to our world's sustainability. Let's show the world that we are PINK DOING GREEN (SM)!

  • Vote now for your favorite tagline

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    The response to our call for entries in the tagline contest was impressive indeed.  More than 700 of you let the creative juices flow and shared your ideas, and a good many of you submitted several different suggestions.  There were a lot of common themes, and some that were very close to being identical.  When we narrowed it down, if there were duplicates (or near duplicates) submitted, we chose the one that was submitted first.  It was really hard to narrow it down to a manageable number that you could vote on, and we decided to offer up 13 for your consideration.  (You know the Mary Kay significance of that number.)

    My thanks to each of you who took the time to share your thoughts.  With all the engagement and excitement we've seen in these early days, I'm really looking forward to seeing where this conversation takes us.

    Very soon we will know the winner of the Michael Kors designer handbag, and our lucky winner will see their tagline gracing the home page of the Mary Kay Reflections blog for all the world to see.  Who will it be?  It's up to you to decide, right now.  Click on the link below to see the 13 finalists, and cast your vote for your favorite.

     Voting for the tagline is now closed.

    The voting will be open only until 9AM CST on Friday, April 24. The winner will be announced shortly after, as soon as the survey results are received.  Then, we're off and running -- stay tuned!

  • It's the people that make the difference

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    I was asked to give the closing keynote speech at a Global Business Summit yesterday, conducted by the Dallas-Fort Worth Chapter of the American Marketing Assocation.  On Tuesday evening, there was a reception at a local university for the speakers, several marketing industry professionals and faculty from the university.  One of my staff members from Mary Kay's market research team is the President-Elect of the local AMA chapter, so she also attended the reception.  I don't get many opportunities to socialize with my team, and I was glad to have the chance to visit with her outside the normal work day environment.

    As we were talking, she shared with me her dream of continuing her education and pursuing a PhD, and then the conversation somehow turned to getting out of school and trying to figure out where you fit in the business world, and all the things that they don't teach you in college that you wish they would.  She said they didn't teach her in college how to find the right organization that would be a fit with who she is. She went on to tell me a story about going to work in "Corporate America" and being totally excited about finding something that would allow her to utilize the market research skills she had studied and worked so hard to develop.  However, she would soon learn that while the opportunity gave her a chance to use those skills, and she actually liked the work, that company wasn't a "fit" for her.  She realized she would never be happy there, no matter the opportunity she was provided.  She left that company, and found Mary Kay.

    (Now we're coming to the part of the story that inspired me to write this post.)

    She's now been with us for just under two years, and she's found a fit.  In fact, she says that all her friends (the ones who DON'T work at Mary Kay) are always talking about how "disgustingly happy" she is since she went to work at Mary Kay.   They often question the reason behind her extreme happiness, and here's what she tells them:

    "When I worked at (the other company), I would walk from my cube to the ladies restroom.  On the way there, I would walk past no less than 10 other people's workstations, and every one of them would look down, start shuffling papers or pick up the phone, not wanting to make eye contact with me, let alone say anything.  At Mary Kay, I also have a long walk to the ladies room.  Everyone I pass by looks up from what they are doing, smiles, offers a greeting or starts a conversation.  In fact, sometimes it can make for a real feeling of desperation by the time I finally get there!"

    When I heard this, of course I immediately had to agree.  There is something special about Mary Kay people.  When the fit is right, you know it.  And more often than not, it is the people that make the difference.  

    Michelle, I'm glad you've found a home at Mary Kay. Keep telling your story to everyone you meet.  And don't give up on pursuing that dream. 

  • Being a bright spot when all around you is dark

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    One of the most valuable lessons I learned from Mary Kay Ash was the importance of maintaining a positive attitude.  She often said "What you think about, you bring about!" In the more than 10 years that I worked closely with her, I never once heard her mutter a negative thought.  She was always about the possibilities, about seeing the glass half full, and about making lemonade when life gives you lemons. 

    I remember in the mid-1980s, when interest rates were sky high, inflation was running rampant, savings and loans went under and our country's economy was creating challenges for us all.  Mary Kay's response was "Recession? What recession?  I refuse to participate in a recession!"  Her laser-sharp focus on continuing to help women and their families through those trying times kept us all positive and focused, too.  We made it through those times, stronger than ever.

    Once again, our economy presents us with challenges.  And the news tells us that women are impacted the most in times like these.  I'm so glad that Mary Kay has a positive, nurturing culture that women can turn to.  It's so great that we can, once again, be a bright spot for all to look to -- a piece of good news that inspires hope.

    There has been so much interest from the media lately, who've been looking for a positive story to tell, and they've found one in Mary Kay.  The latest was a feature on ABC'c Nightline.  If you haven't seen it yet, check it out:

    Link to Nightline Video Clip

    While it's great that our business results represent a bright spot, I believe there is so much more that each of us as individuals can do to spread good cheer and brighten someone's day.  Take just a few moments each day to make someone you meet feel special. Smile often. (And don't worry about those little lines that you get around your eyes from smiling, I know a source for a terriffic eye cream!)

  • Tagline contest closes Tuesday 4/14 9 AM CST

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    The Mary Kay women are really a creative bunch!  We've had well over 500 suggestions for the Reflections blog tagline.  We'll close down the contest and gather all the entries tomorrow morning at 9:00 AM Dallas time.  Then we'll narrow it down and put several of the best back out there for you to vote on. The tagline that receives the most votes will be declared our winner, and the author will be the owner of a fabulous new Michael Kors designer handbag.

    I've noticed that many of you have left duplicate comments because you didn't see it post immediately.  Comments made to this site are moderated, which means that I review them before they are posted to the site.  I review the comments several times each day, but there are times when I eat, sleep, do my other Mary Kay work, and spend some time with my family.  Also, for you "night owls", I'm an "early to bed, early to rise" person, so I rarely review comments after 9 PM, and often review them prior to 6 AM in the morning.

    This would also be a good time to let you know that I won't be blogging every day.  A few times a week is the plan for now, and we'll see where that takes us.  I have a Twitter account that is complementary to the Mary Kay Reflections blog.  If you'd like to follow on Twitter, the ID is MKReflections.  To make it simple, when you're on the blog, you can simply go to the bottom right of the page, and click on the link that says "follow me on Twitter".  If you don't already have a Twitter account, you'll have to set one up.  It's really easy, and it's free.

    That's all for now, and happy blogging!

  • The contest continues...

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    All I can say is WOW!

    I wish you could all see how things are "buzzing" around here since yesterday morning.  So many of our employees and executives are sharing their excitement about the new blog, and just take a look at the response we've received so far.  Clearly, the time was right for us to make this connection.

    As far as the tagline contest, we've already received more than 150 fabulous entries.  The plan is to keep it open through the weekend, and then we'll close the contest early next week.  My team will take all the entries, narrow them down to a handful, and post them for you to vote on.

    In the meantime, keep those great ideas coming.  In case you're curious about the PRIZE, how does a Michael Kors designer handbag sound? 

    Is there such a thing as too many purses?

     

  • Inaugural Blog Posting

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    Welcome to the inaugural post of “Reflections” --  I’m delighted that you’ve come to visit!

    Perhaps we’ve had a chance to meet already; if so, it’s good to connect with you again.  If we don’t yet know each other, I’m looking forward to learning about you. (If you’re curious about me, you can click on the “About the authors” button at the top right.)

    It is so exciting for me to have this opportunity to share with you a bit about what’s going on at Mary Kay and my perspective on issues that interest us as women.   I’d also like to hear from you about what’s on your mind.  I wish Mary Kay Ash were still here, so she could see us utilizing these new avenues of communication.  In my early days at the company, I remember Mary Kay referring to “the three forms of communication – telegraph, telephone and tell-a-woman”.  She would be so surprised at how far we’ve come as a society and as a company, and the wonderful tools that technology has made available to allow for instantaneous, worldwide sharing of thoughts.

    The name “Reflections” is perfect for the blog because  it truly represents the vision for what will happen here.  Reflections are thoughts or opinions resulting from careful consideration, or, in another sense, what we see when we look at ourselves.  Our goal is that the content you find here inspires you and gives you food for thought. Ultimately, we hope this blog is one more way that Mary Kay can enrich your life.

    I’m just the navigator here, though, helping guide us through the path that, together, we decide to take.  Of course there will be times when I want to talk about something specific that’s on my mind, or an exciting event that we want to make sure you have the scoop on.  You’ll hear often from other Mary Kay executives and employees  as well.  And we’re counting on you to provide lots of interesting things for us to explore.  What a fun journey this will be!

    This site is for you, and we’d like your help from the very beginning to create a tagline for “Reflections” that will help readers know what we’re all about and why they should join us.  Think about the things you love about Mary Kay or the way it makes you feel.  To get your creative juices flowing, here’s an example: “Beauty from the inside out – be inspired, share ideas, stay connected.” Post your creative ideas on the tagline here, we’ll narrow it down, and let you vote on the final tagline.  And what’s a Mary Kay challenge without a PRIZE?  Of course, there will be one.  Who knows?  You may be the author of the winning words.

    Thanks again for being a part of what’s happening here and we can’t wait to hear from you.