Rhonda Shasteen

Chief Marketing Officer (retired) at Mary Kay Inc.

At Mary Kay for more than 25 years, and worked closely with Mary Kay Ash for 10.

Raised in Dallas, Texas. Married, 2 grown children.

At work, I enjoy helping women develop as leaders; creating solutions to complex problems;  learning new things. At home, I enjoy the cows, horses and garden; fresh country air and time with my husband; learning new things and discovering my authentic self.

With more time, I would: sew (again); exercise (more); run for political office.

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  • No posts until the week of August 3rd

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    Mary Kay's annual Seminar has arrived, and we're all taking care of business and supporting our Independent Beauty Consultants at the Dallas Convention Center.  I'll be back blogging the week of August 3rd.  See you then!

  • That Special Time of Year

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    I always know when it's getting close to one of my favorite times of the year when the mercury tops 100 degrees in Dallas, Texas.  No, it's not that I like the heat so much, but it means that it's time for the annual Mary Kay Seminar.  It recharges my batteries like nothing else I've ever experienced.  It always reminds me of why I love this company so much and gets me motivated for another year of challenging work.  It's the time that I reconnect with women that I haven't seen for a year, get updates on their families, see the new hairdos, and find out who is breaking records and setting audacious goals for new ones.

    So what exactly IS this thing called Seminar?  Well, what it IS NOT is another stuffy, boring workshop that someone sends you to where you're supposed to learn something, but you usually don't.  What it IS can best be described as the Academy Awards, Broadway, and the Miss Universe pageant all rolled up into one, with a dose of business education and mentoring on the side, and a pep rally and family reunion thrown in for good measure. There's recognition, motivation, inspiration, education, and entertainment.  There's food, and fun, talking and sharing, lots and lots of sharing.  There's lights, cameras, and action, lots of action.  There's sparkle and shine and fashion.  Did I say there's lots of sparkle?  There are limousines and flowers, diamonds and crystal, exotic vacations and big bonus checks.  Yes, all these are some of the things you will SEE when you attend a Mary Kay Seminar.  It's the celebration of success for our Independent Beauty Consultants and Sales Directors who have worked hard all year to build their businesses.  It's their time to shine!

    While all these THINGS are wonderful, they are just things.  And, while Seminar just wouldn't be Seminar without them, it's the things you DON'T SEE at the Mary Kay Seminar that are the most meaningful to me.  Like the dedicated Mary Kay staff, that give up their July 4th holiday each year to move into the Dallas Convention Center and begin the weeks-long process of setting everything up.  Like the well-trained catering staff that make feeding 10,000 women at a time look like a cakewalk.  Like all of the contractors who come back to work with us at Seminar year after year after year, and are just as committed and dedicated to the event as any Mary Kay employee.  Like the local Dallas hotels and restaurants that roll out the red carpet when the Mary Kay women are in town.   It's the sharing that happens when there's supposed to be sleep back in the hotel room.  It's the "I had an AHA moment, and I can't wait to get back home and get to work" feeling.  It's the hugs, and the tears, and the laughter.  It's the photos, and the autographs and the dreams being formed.  It's the tradition of getting a hot dog every Awards Night around 9 p.m. (even though you've had dinner, because you need something to sustain you until midnight).  It's watching the makeup artists work their magic backstage before the reveal of the makeover winners.  It's seeing the smiling faces of the convention center security staff, who are back again this year, and still remember your face.  It's about everyone pitching in to do whatever it takes to pull off a spectacular event for the women who are our reason for being.

    I LOVE SEMINAR!  And I have since my very first one in 1984.  My first Seminar was the first year we went from holding 3 to holding 4 back to back, in order to accommodate all the women who wanted to attend.  Then by 1997, we had grown so much that we had to add another, and Seminar became a three-week long event.  I sat down to do the math on exactly how many Seminars I had attended in my career, and before we even get started this year, I've attended 112 Seminars (4 for 13 years, and 5 for 12 years).  And I still look forward to it beginning again, next Wednesday, July 15th.  That should tell you something about just how great it is!

  • Declare your independence!

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    I've been thinking a lot this week about July 4th, the day that all patriotic Americans celebrate our country's independence and reflect on all the freedoms that we enjoy.  As I hear the news, both from the United States and abroad, I am reminded of just how fragile independence and freedom can be, for nations and for individuals.  It takes courage, persistence, daily nurturing and a strong belief in guiding principles to maintain the delicate balance of freedom and independence.  While I could go on about patriotism, individual rights, world peace, et al, I will spare you from my political ramblings.

    However, what I do want to opine on is the freedom of women.  Not about the freedom to choose, or the freedom to be equal, or any of the other freedoms that in one way or another are controlled by some law, or some government, or some cultural tradition.  I want to talk about women freeing themselves.  Yes, as I sit here and think about Independence Day, what I think about is all the things that women do to hold themselves back from GREATNESS. 

    I say, "It's Independence Day.  Let Freedom Ring.  Declare Your Independence!"

    Declare your independence. . . from whatever it is that you are allowing to hold you back.

    Declare your independence. . . from small thinking.

    Declare your independence. . . from making excuses.

    Declare your independence. . . from trying to keep up with the Joneses.

    Declare your independence. . . from trying to fit into a mold that's not YOU.

    Declare your independence. . . from unhealthy habits.

    Declare your independence. . . from debt.

    Declare your independence. . . from relationships with people who drag you down.

    Declare your independence. . . from trying to be all things to all people.

    Whatever it is, declare your independence, and know the peace that comes with being truly FREE.  Free to be the best YOU that YOU can be.

    What personal freedom will you celebrate on Independence Day?